Here are a few helpful hints to keep in mind to make your job easier:
- Sit down whenever possible while working with children.
- Use a low, quiet voice. Enunciate clearly.
- Try to limit socializing with the other adults while working so that the children can benefit more from your time together.
- Use language that the child can understand. Help the child learn the meaning of words by example. Show her/him how. "Pull on the lever" makes little sense if she/he doesn't understand the words.
- Answer questions and talk to children when the occasion calls for it but avoid talking to them all the time.
- When children are working or playing well, do not interfere - just observe and perhaps add to or provide resources when appropriate.
- Avoid talking about a child in her/his presence.
- Be patient. Children need time to develop and improve gradually.
- Suggest what a child is to do rather than what she/he is not to do. Look for what is right with the child instead of looking for problems.
- Before giving a direction, obtain the child's attention.
- Avoid conflicts and forcing an issue as much as possible. A little ingenuity often makes a situation go smoothly. The child needs to establish a pattern of happy performance rather than one of negative refusal.
- Utilize the positive guidance techniques taught in parent education meetings and demonstrated by the teachers. Physical discipline is never used in the classroom.
- Praise the type of behavior you wish continued. Success is the best reinforcement possible.
- Allow the child to learn by experiment. Help her/him only when it is necessary to avoid failure and discouragement. Encourage her/him to find out for herself/himself.
- Accept and appreciate each child as she/he is, remembering each child is different. Observe and study her/his "uniqueness" and her/his "sameness." This will give us the foundation for what we do with and for her/him.
- Reflect the anti-bias philosophy of the classroom through your words and actions (see ANTI-BIAS GOALS).
- Be relaxed, enjoy the children, and let it show when you are having fun.